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On the Respected & Connected podcast, we dig into the real, messy, and sometimes uncomfortable truths about relationships—so you can shift the dynamic in yours for good.

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Episode 150

Disappointment Detox: How to Handle Letdowns in Relationships

November 12, 20240 min read

Tired of feeling let down or resentful in your relationships?

This episode explores the hidden power of disappointment. Sharon dives deep into common mistakes we make when dealing with unmet expectations. 

Learn practical skills like the "Feedback Wheel" and "Soft Startup" to transform conflict into connection. Discover how to avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms and communicate your needs effectively, even after betrayals or during life transitions.

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