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Episode 151

Navigating Insecure Attachment with Bev Mitelman

November 20, 20241 min read

Have you ever wondered how your past relationships have shaped your emotional responses to your partner?

This episode explores the four different relationship attachment styles. Our Guest today is Bev Mitelman M.A., the founder of Securely Loved. Bev and Sharon dive into attachment styles, and how those subconscious patterns affect how we perceive conflict with our loved ones. Learn about the four key relationship attachment styles; Secure, Anxious Preoccupied, Fearful Avoidant, and Dismissive Avoidant; hear Bev explain how these attachment style form, what patterns they cause us to fall into, and how being aware of your style can allow you to connect more effectively with loved ones.

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About Bev

Bev is a Certified Attachment Practitioner, focused in helping people break the cycle of insecure attachment issues. She works with individuals, couples, and groups to help them create more passionate, and connected relationships with their ideal partner, friends and family, and with themselves.

Securely Loved Website: https://securelyloved.com/

Securely Loved on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/securely_loved/

Free Attachment Style Quiz: https://securelyloved.com/attachment-quiz

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